How often does our message not go down well with the receiver, how often do we not understand the message of the other one, can we not receive it?

We have learned to answer professionally or adopted to the society.

Listening means you let go of own conceptions and learned knowledge. You empty yourself and free your mind in order to really listen.

Understanding means: I see you.

Especially in this point we can learn a lot from children.
Listening without answering with words, listening in order to get to know the world of the other.
Listening in order to immerse into the world of the other, to experience it.
At the beginning there is no learned reaction pattern in the children’s world. They are and feel free to act and react spontaneously.

The frequency needs to be tuned in for us to understand each other.

Exercise

Open up yourself for the message behind the words. Listen and feel.
Which energy touches you?
Take yourself a few days to sense the energy of the words and read between the lines.
Ask: What are you really telling me? What are you telling me apart from words.

What does the one in front of you want to communicate what you don’t find in his or her words?

Some things people can’t put in words, because they are not aware of them. But it is not only about specific messages, it’s also about with moods, emotions and wisdom.

They are an aspect of our perception and our holistic experience.

They lie around us like a protective and communications cover and help us to perceive, to feel.

We experience emotions when we are touchable and touch by ourselves. We feel.

When we are scared we are not free to feel.
There are old sources of anxiety which are no longer relevant today, but as a remembrance drain energy from us.

Anxieties that influence us today should serve as fully. They should not rule us and by this influence our actions or obscure our perception.

Anxieties unsettle us. The only helpful way is to turn the fear.

Not everything is touched or lived by you at this moment. But it is there and you can find it in you.

Since we have not learned to know ourselves, our soul, and to exploit our potential, we need loving support, which I would like to give you here.

If you do not want to live from what you have learned or been taught, but from yourself, your inner source, then it is …

• What gifts do you bring?
• What qualities do describe your being?
• What quality radiates in your eyes and touches your clients?
• What do you stand for?
• What do others see in you?
• What is your purpose and task?
• Who are you?

It’s not about re-establishing this connection, because it is inherent in us.
It is about becoming aware of the inner Divine Voice, of distinguishing between inner guidance and thoughts, following outward voices, the outward voices we follow rules or conceptions with, or those that come from our uncertainty and self-doubt.
First, you learn to perceive your inner guidance.
That way you can follow it. Everything that comes out of your inner guidance is in harmony with your truth. But it is also in harmony with the person you are accompanying.
Therefore, inner guidance is so important to us as a companion or teacher.

You only recognize the wisdom of the moment through your inner guidance, which speaks directly to you from your soul.
The more you learn to trust the inner voice, the more self-assurance you gain, the more confident you can count on yourself.

I have been working therapeutically for 32 years: 10 years of physiotherapy, 7 years of pain therapy, parent-child counseling, psychomotricity, pregnancy and birth support, training and coaching for attendants / therapists and leaders.
Since the year 2000 I work as a spiritual teacher and trainer.

I always wanted to see and understand the whole thing. Deep down, I knew that there is something that unites everything, something that is deeper and at the same time easier than anything we have learned.

Many consultations or advices seemed to me as if they did not fit 100%. There often remained the feeling that something is missing, something essential, what touches the soul in the other, what reminds the other of himself and helps him to heal, to become free, to know himself.

Personally, I want to live in a world that serves me and that I serve with my gifts, my purpose. Today I feel every moment how I shape this world myself.

I have found my mission and goal by giving space to my longing. I let my longing guide me into my dream, felt it and named it.
Then I started to realize my dream.
At the same time, I encountered obstacles, both inside and outside me. From doubt to “that’s impossible” everything was there.

If you know your goal, you can always realign yourself. You experience step by step that your dream comes alive.

I am touched, when through my work healing, awareness, love and deep understanding awaken, when parents, children and their attendants are happy deep in their hearts. By that I do not mean the happiness that flashes through an experience or a temporary success. I mean the deep inner happiness that is not dependent on anything external. This happiness comes directly from your soul.